Lesson 5 Bertemu Keluarga Meeting the Family
VALIDATION COPY 1.0 JUNE 2007
In this lesson, you will learn the terms for describing kinship relationships, such as sister, brother, mother, father, and so. After completing the lesson, you will be able to use these terms correctly in a conversation.
1. Look at the photos representing three generations of an Indonesian family. Can you figure out who is represented? Listen to the familial terms and repeat them after the native speaker.
Father Mother Son Daughter Grandfather Grandmother Younger brother Younger sister Older brother Older sister Husband Wife
Bapak Ibu Anak lelaki Anak wanita Kakek Nenek Adik lelaki Adik wanita Kakak lelaki Kakak wanita Suami Isteri
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2. Match the Indonesian word with its English equivalent. To check your work, refer to the vocabulary list. Son Grandmother Daughter Grandfather Father Mother
Nenek Bapak Ibu Anak lelaki Anak wanita Kakek
3. A family (keluarga) can be described as having parents (orang tua) and children (anak-anak). Below are some statements about family members whose ages are given in parentheses. Think about the logical kinship relationships, using their ages as clues, and fill in the blanks with the proper Indonesian kinship term. Check your answers with the Answer Key. A. Tanto (11 tahun) punya ____________ (35 tahun) dan ___________ (37 tahun).
B. Tuan Tahapary (70) dan Nyonya Tahapary (67 tahun) punya __________ (40 tahun) and _____________ (36 tahun).
C. Ulam Tobing (45 tahun) dan Beci Tobing (42 tahun) punya _______dan _________.
D. Nona Marla (11 tahun) punya _______65 tahun) dan _______(68 tahun).
4. Within a generation there are siblings and spouses. In the next generation, there are children and cousins. Familiarize yourself with the following kinship terms. Read and listen to the terms, and repeat after the speaker. Children Parent Cousin Uncle Aunt Nephew Niece Brother-in-law Sister-in-law Mother-in-law Father-in-law Married
Anak- anak Orang tua Misan/ Sepupu Paman/ Oom Bibi/ Tante Keponakan lelaki Keponakan wanita Kakak/ Adik ipar lelaki Kakak/ Adik ipar wanita Ibu mertua Bapak mertua Menikah/ Kawin
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Unmarried/Single man Unmarried/Single lady
Bujangan Gadis
Study the family tree that represents Tanto Suhirman’s extended family.
father
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mother
bapak Tanto Suhirman aunt
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ibu Sutanti Sutrisno
uncle
bibi/tante Tari Suhirman
cousin
aunt
paman/oom Manto Suhirman
cousin
bibi/tante Santi Sutrisno
sister
brother
Dewi
Joko
uncle paman/oom Toto Sutrisno
cousin
cousin Tati Suhirman
Joko Suhirman
Yanti Ssutrisno
Yanto Sutrisno
Here is how you ask if someone has brothers, sisters, cousins, grandparents, and so on: Do you have a _______? Apakah anda punya satu _______? Do you have any _______? Apakah anda punya _______?
To answer in the affirmative, you say the following: Yes, I have a _______. Ya, saya punya _______. To answer in the negative, you say the following: No, I don’t have _______. Tidak, saya tidak punya _______. brothers? Do you have__/ sisters? \ grandparents? kakak/ adik lelaki? Apakah anda punya__/ kakak/ adik wanita? \ nenek/ kakek?
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5. Listen to the audio and mark the correct answers. Check your answers with the Answer Key. a.) Nano punya
mother, uncle, niece
b.) Rully punya
nephew, brother, uncle
c.) Mala punya
grandmother, grandfather, son
6. Read the description of Rully Tobing's family below and correct the mistakes in the family tree. Rully punya kakek dan nenek dari pihak keluarga ibunya. Mereka tinggal dengan Rully dan orang tuanya bersama dua kakak wanitanya. Rully tidak punya kakak atau adik lelaki. Rully punya satu bibi dan satu paman dari pihak keluarga bapaknya dan satu misan. Dia punya satu bibi dari pihak keluarga ibunya, tetapi tidak punya paman atau misan dari pihak keluarga itu. Rully punya satu kakak wanita yang sudah menikah. Kakak wanitanya dan iparnya punya satu anak lelaki, Nano. Rully punya kakek dari pihak keluarga bapaknya tetapi tidak punya nenek.
bapak
nenek bibi
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ibu
kakek
paman
kakek bapak
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nenek
ibu
paman
misan misan
misan ipar lelaki
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kakak/adik wanita
Rully
keponakan wanita
Grammar Notes To ask someone’s name, use siapa, which means “who” or “whose.” Siapa nama_______? (Use the appropriate term of address.) Siapa nama Ibu? (What is your name, madam?) To ask a child what his or her name is, you say the following: Siapa nama kamu? To ask your teacher’s name, you ask one of these questions:
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bibi misan
kakak/adik lelaki
Siapa nama Ibu? (For female) Siapa nama Bapak? (For male) To ask someone’s name who is of similar age, then you say the following: Siapa nama anda/ saudara? To ask about a third person’s name, use dia/ ia (his/her): Siapa nama dia? To tell someone your name, you say the following: Nama saya adalah _______. To ask who a person is, you say the following: Siapa dia? (The word dia is the third person singular for female or male). In Indonesian, the use of adalah is optional. Thus one can say the following: Nama saya adalah Nano. (or) Nama saya Nano. (My name is Nano.) Nama dia adalah Mala. (or) Nama dia Mala. (Her name is Mala.) Be sure to put the words in the right order, as saya nama means “I am the name.” Note: The majority of Indonesians use only one name. This is especially true of those from Java. Ibu (madam) is the proper term for greeting a lady when you do not know her marital status.
7. Listen to several short dialogues of people who are answering questions about their family members. Fill in each blank with the missing information. Check your answers with the Answer Key. A. Siapa dia? Dia _______ saya. Apa dia sudah menikah? _______, dia belum menikah. B. Siapa dia? Dia adalah _______ saya. Apa dia sudah menikah? Ya, dia _______ menikah. C. Siapa _______? Mereka adalah _______ dan _______ saya. Dimana mereka tinggal? Mereka tinggal di ______________. D. Apa anda punya _______? Ya, Saya punya satu _______ dan satu anak wanita.
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E. Siapa itu? Itu adalah adik _______ saya. Apa dia punya anak? _______. F. Berapa kakak dan adik _______ saudara punya? Saya punya _______. Berapa umur mereka? Mereka berumur _______, _______dan _______tahun. G. Siapa itu? Itu adalah _______ saya. Sudah berapa lama anda menikah? _______ tahun.
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End-of-Lesson Tasks
1. Give a brief description in Indonesian of your immediate family. Include the ages of the people, whether they are married or unmarried, and where they live.
2. Draw your family tree for three generations and label each person with the correct Indonesian kinship term.
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Vocabulary Father Mother Son Daughter Grandfather Grandmother Younger brother Younger sister Older brother Older sister Husband Wife Children Parent Cousin Uncle Aunt Nephew Niece Brother-in-law Sister-in-law Mother-in-law Father-in-law Married Unmarried/Single man Unmarried/ Single lady
Bapak Ibu Anak lelaki Anak wanita Kakek Nenek Adik lelaki Adik wanita Kakak lelaki Kakak wanita Suami Isteri Anak-anak Orang tua Misan/ Sepupu Paman/ Oom Bibi/ Tante Keponakan lelaki Keponakan wanita Kakak/ Adik ipar lelaki Kakak/ Adik ipar wanita Ibu mertua Bapak mertua Menikah/ Kawin Bujangan Gadis
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Answer Key Exercise 3 A. Tanto (11 tahun) punya ibu (35 tahun) dan bapak (37 tahun). Tanto has a mother and a father. B. Tuan Tahapary (70) dan Nyonya Tahapary (67 tahun) punya anak wanita (40 tahun) and anak lelaki (36 tahun). Mr. and Mrs. Tahapary have a daughter and a son. C. Nani Tahapary (45 tahun) dan Rulli Tahapary (42 tahun) punya anak lelaki dan anak wanita. Nani and Rulli Tahapary has a son and a daughter. D. Nona Marla (11 tahun) punya kakek (65 tahun) dan nenek (68 tahun). Marla has a grandpa and a grandma. Exercise 5 A. Nano punya keponkaan wanita.(Nano has a niece.) B. Rully punya paman/ oom. (Rulli has an uncle.) C. Mala punya kakek. (Mala has a grandpa.) Exercise 6 Rully has a grandfather and a grandmother on his mother’s side. They live with Rully and his parents and two sisters. Rully has no brothers. Rully has an aunt and uncle on his father’s side and one cousin. He has an aunt on his mother’s side, but no uncles or cousins on that side. Rully has one older sister who is married. His sister and brother-in-law have a son, who is Rully's nephew. Rully has a grandfather on his father’s side but no grandmother. Rully punya kakek dan nenek dari pihak keluarga ibunya. Mereka tinggal dengan Rully dan orang tuanya bersama dua kakak wanitanya. Rully tidak punya kakak atau adik lelaki. Rully punya satu bibi dan satu paman dari pihak keluarga bapaknya dan satu misan. Dia punya satu bibi dari pihak keluarga ibunya, tetapi tidak punya paman atau misan dari pihak keluarga itu. Rully punya satu kakak wanita yang sudah menikah. Kakak wanitanya dan iparnya punya satu anak lelaki, Nano. Rully punya kakek dari pihak keluarga bapaknya tetapi tidak punya nenek. Exercise 7 A. Siapa dia? (Who is she?) Dia adalah bibi saya. (She is my aunt.) Apa dia sudah menikah? (Is she married?) Belum, dia belum menikah.(No. She is not married.)
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B. Siapa dia? (Who is he?) Dia adalah misan saya (He is my cousin.) Apa dia sudah menikah? (Is he married?) Ya, dia sudah menikah. (Yes, he is.) C. Siapa mereka? (Who are they?) Mereka adalah kakek dan nenek saya. (They are my grandparents.) Dimana mereka tinggal? (Where do they live?) Mereka tinggal di apartemen. (They live in an apartment.) D. Apa anda punya anak? (Do you have kids?) Ya, Saya punya satu satu anak lelaki dan satu anak wanita. (Yes I have a son and a daughter.) E. Siapa itu? (Who is that?) Itu adalah adik wanita saya. (That’s my younger sister.) Apa dia punya anak? (Does she have any kids?) Ya. (Yes she does.) F. Berapa kakak dan adik wanita saudara punya? (How many siblings do you have?) Saya punya tiga. (I have three siblings.) Berapa umur mereka? (How old are they?) Mereka berumur 16, 21 dan 24 tahun. (They are 16, 21 and 24 years old.) G. Siapa itu? (Who is that?) Itu adalah suami saya. (That’s my husband.) Sudah berapa lama anda menikah? (How long have you been married?) 17 tahun. (About 17 years.)
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