MINDSET: THE FACTOR FOR YOUR SUCCESS Josua Tarigan, SE, MBA, CMA, CFP, CSRS, CSRA
TEORI: MINDSET
Mindset Gajah itu seperti tembok
Gajah itu seperti tali
Gajah itu seperti ular
Gajah itu seperti pilar
Who are U
Cara Merespon & Pola Pikir
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Physical ≠ Your Destiny
Kyle Mynard
The best athletic with disability (ESPN).
He is the champion in wrestling and the champion in lives.
He wrote a book “No Excuse”
Dr Victor Frankl (1905-1997)
Survivor 4 kali kamp nazi Pendiri Logotheraphy Hidup punya makna dalam situasi dan kondisi apapun bahkan dalam kondisi yang paling menyengsarakan, tak pernah keadaan yang sia-sia”
We have no right to ask “Why did this happen to me?” unless we also ask the same question for every joy that comes our way. His really famous book “Man'sSearch for Meaning”
Who are U
What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger
Who are U
manusia digerakkan oleh pikirannya
TEORI: MANUSIA ADALAH PIKIRANNYA
Who are U
From Nothing to be Something
Praktek Mengubah Pola Pikir
Mindset lama
Mindset baru
Bisnis Cleaning Services itu Bisnis ini bagus, belum ada yang menggarap di Indonesia, jelek merupakan niche market. Manusia cacat mustahil untuk berhasil
Kesuksesan manusia tidak dibatasi oleh kondisi fisik. Banyak manusia yang sempurna fisiknya namun gagal dalam hidupnya, jadi keberhasilan bukan ditentukan oleh fisik seseorang.
Saya gagal karena lingkungan saya terlalu sulit Penerbangan itu merupakan alat transportasi yang mahal
Justru karena lingkungan saya sulit membentuk saya menjadi pribadi yang lebih tanggung Penerbangan itu bisa murah, asal kita tahu bagaimana mengelolanya, seperti tiket online, no-meal yang dilakukan oleh Air Asia dll.
Who are U
Kita adalah apa yang kita kerjakan secara berulangulang, Kita adalah HABIT kita sendiri. Karena itu keunggulan adalah hasil dari sebuah HABIT
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Environment ≠ Your Destiny • Roger Bannister: myth 4 minutes (for 1500 meters) • Over 9 years no one can break the record (myth) • One day, Bannister can break it within 3 minutes 59.4’ • However, Bannister's record only lasted for 46 days. The following 20 athletes can also break his record
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Country ≠ Your Destiny
• Se Ri Pak, the first Korean who won the McDonalds LPGA golf tournament • After that there is another Korean won this championship
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Country ≠ Your Destiny
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Country ≠ Your Destiny
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Country ≠ Your Destiny
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Country ≠ Your Destiny
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Naaman: Commander of the army of king Aram
2 Kings 5: 1-14
Shifting Your “Negative” Mindset Simulation
Old Mindset
New Mindset
Put your “negative” mindset into the bin Simulation
Shifting Your Negative Mindset “Belief Dispute” – Adapted from Steve Sudjatmiko Activating Event
I’m a short person
Consequence Effective Behavior I’m not attractive for any girls
Belief
I’m shy to have a date with a girl
Is there a woman who wants to marry with a short-man
Dispute
Take action first: ask her for a date
Become confident
New Feelings
Shifting Your Negative Mindset “Belief Dispute” – Adapted from Steve Sudjatmiko Activating Event
My performance during presentation is bad
Consequence Effective Behavior I’m not the person who is capable to be a good presenter
Belief
I will let my friend to do the presentation
How do you prepare? How many times have you failed?
Dispute
You need to try again
Become confident
New Feelings
Jeremu Rifkin, in his book “The End of Work”, said that 3 out of 4 works can be automated. Therefore INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY WILL DESTROY MILLIONS OF JOB
IT WILL DESTROY MILLIONS OF JOB, _____________________________ _________________________
Why you need belief dispute? you can not change the mindset easily, unless you give special treatment to the code forming the DNA - Biologist-
Why you need belief dispute? Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change -Stephen Hawking -
Why you need belief dispute? The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking -Albert Einstein-
Shifting Your Negative Mindset “Belief Dispute” Activating Event
Consequence Effective Behavior
Belief
Dispute
New Feelings
Is it humanism? Bible also use the same scheme Romans 12:2 ……be transformed by the renewal of your mind… Colossians 3:1-2 …….set your minds on things that are above…..
Many bad companies (even the BIG ones) tend to think the way they are, however Great companies tend to think the way they could be
Your Mindset = Your Destiny The Story of Lincoln 1832 Failed in the first election of Illionis
1833 failed in business 1835 His beloved is gone 1838 Become a spokesperson of white house 1843 Nominated in congress 1849 Rejected to be an officer in US Government
1854 Elected as US senate 1856 Nominated to be a Vice President 1860 Become a President
Your Mindset = Your Destiny The Other Stories ____________became an entrepreneur at the age of 60 after being rejected by Investors for 1009 times
__________ succeeded after trying more than 800 times
__________ rejected by investors for more than 250 times
Some Syndromes: BE CAREFUL traumatic experience
The Chain of Elephant Syndrome
You Can (not) see Kangaroo in…..
Obstacles are the frightful things you see when you take your MIND off your GOALS
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Your Words & Actions become destiny
Your Mindset = Your Destiny Watch your …………, it becomes your …………….
Watch your thoughts, they become ………….
Watch your …………, they become your ………………
Watch your ………., they become ……….. Watch your …………., they become ……….. FRANK OUTLAW
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No matter who you are, where you come from, how you got that way, you can respond, you can change, and you can live the life of your dreams
