ABSTRAK
Penelitian ini dilakukan untuk memperoleh gambaran mengenai tipe forgiveness pada pejabat gerejawi di Gereja “X” di Kota Bogor. Sampel dalam penelitian ini berjumlah 95 orang. Alat ukur yang digunakan merupakan modifikasi dari Decisional Forgiveness Scale (DFS) dan Emotional Forgiveness Scale (EFS) dari 16 item menjadi 32 item. Berdasarkan hasil uji validitas dengan rumus Rank Spearman, 3 item dinyatakan tidak valid. Koefisien validitas item berkisar antara 0.163–0.804. Uji reliabilitas dilakukan dengan rumus Alpha Cronbach. Koefisien reliabilitas item sebesar 0,908. Dari hasil penelitian, secara individual diketahui bahwa sebanyak 52,6% subjek menggunakan tipe emotional forgiveness, 43,2% menggunakan tipe decisional forgiveness, dan sebanyak 4,2% subjek menggunakan decisional dan emotional forgiveness. Bagi penelitian selanjutnya, disarankan untuk memperdalam faktor-faktor yang memengaruhi, seperti karakteristik peristiwa, sikap rendah hati dan kemampuan melakukan empati, serta kepribadian. Selain itu, pejabat gerejawi mempertahankan yang cenderung menggunakan emotional forgiveness. Peneliti juga menyarankan pada pihak gereja yang terkait membuat kegiatan bersama, sharing dan konseling untuk meningkatkan emotional forgiveness.
Kata kunci: decisional forgiveness, emotional forgiveness, pejabat gerejawi.
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ABSTRACT
This research was conducted to describe the types of forgiveness church activits in the Church “X” Bogor. The sample in this research consisted of 95 people. Measuring instrument that used in this research is a modification of Decisional Forgiveness Scale (DFS) and Emotional Forgiveness Scale (DFS) from 16 items to 32 items. Based on the validation process with Rank Spearman formula, 3 items proved not to be valid. Validity coefficients were ranging between 0.163–0.804. The reliability testing was done by Alpha Cronbach formula. Reliability coefficients was 0,908. From this research, the results showed that in the individual context, 52,6% of the subjects using emotional forgiveness, 43,2% using decisional forgiveness, and 4,2% using decisional and emotional forgiveness. For further research, it is suggested to study the affecting factors such as the characteristic of painful event, humble behavior and the ability to empathize and personalities. Furthermore, maintain that using emotional forgiveness. Researcher suggests the related church to hold more group activities, sharing, and counseling to increase emotional forgiveness.
Keywords: decisional forgiveness, emotional forgiveness, church activists.
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DAFTAR ISI
HALAMAN JUDUL................................................................................................ i LEMBAR PENGESAHAN .................................................................................... ii ABSTRAK..............................................................................................................iii ABSTRACT..............................................................................................................iv KATA PENGANTAR ............................................................................................ v DAFTAR ISI .......................................................................................................... iii DAFTAR BAGAN ................................................................................................ xi DAFTAR TABEL ................................................................................................. xii DAFTAR LAMPIRAN ........................................................................................ xiii BAB I PENDAHULUAN ....................................................................................... 1 1.1
Latar Belakang Masalah ........................................................................... 1
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Identifikasi Masalah ................................................................................. 7
1.3
Maksud dan Tujuan Penelitian ................................................................. 7
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Kegunaan Penelitian ................................................................................. 7
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Kerangka Pemikiran ................................................................................. 8
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Asumsi .................................................................................................... 13
BAB II LANDASAN TEORITIS ......................................................................... 16 2.1
Pengertian Forgiveness .......................................................................... 16
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Tipe Forgiveness .................................................................................... 16
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Faktor yang memengaruhi seseorang untuk memaafkan ....................... 18
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Teori The Big Five .................................................................................. 20
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Forgiveness dan Jenis Kelamin .............................................................. 21
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Teori Perkembangan ............................................................................... 22
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Pejabat Gerejawi di Gereja “X” ............................................................. 26
BAB III METODOLOGI PENELITIAN.............................................................. 30 3.1
Rancangan Penelitian ............................................................................. 30
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Bagan Prosedur Penelitian...................................................................... 30
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Variabel Penelitian dan Definisi Operasional ........................................ 31
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Alat ukur ................................................................................................. 32
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Populasi .................................................................................................. 35
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Teknik Analisis Data .............................................................................. 36
BAB IV HASIL PENELITIAN DAN PEMBAHASAN ...................................... 37 4.1.
Gambaran Subjek Penelitian .................................................................. 37
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Hasil Penelitian...................................................................................... 38
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Pembahasan ............................................................................................ 38
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Diskusi .................................................................................................... 50
BAB V SIMPULAN DAN SARAN ................................................................... 55 5.1 Simpulan ....................................................................................................... 55
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5.2. Saran ............................................................................................................. 57 DAFTAR PUSTAKA ........................................................................................... 59 DAFTAR RUJUKAN ........................................................................................... 60 LAMPIRAN .......................................................................................................... 61
DAFTAR BAGAN
Bagan 1.1 Kerangka Pemikiran .............................................................................13 Bagain 3.1 Rancangan Penelitian ..........................................................................27
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DAFTAR TABEL
Tabel 2.1 Perbedaan decisional dan emotional forgiveness................................. 18 Tabel 3.1 Kisi-kisi alat ukur .................................................................................. 32 Tabel 3.2 Sistem Penilaian Alat Ukur Forgiveness .............................................. 33 Tabel 3.3 Kriteria Validitas ................................................................................... 34 Tabel 3.4 Kriteria Reliabilitas ............................................................................... 35 Tabel 4.1 Distribusi Subjek Penelitian Berdasarkan Jenis Kelamin....................37 Tabel 4.2 Distribusi Subjek Penelitian Berdasarkan Usia...................................37 Tabel 4.3 Tipe Forgiveness………………………………………………………38
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DAFTAR LAMPIRAN
Lampiran 1 : Kisi-kisi Alat Ukur Lampiran 2 : Kuesioner Decisional dan Emotional Forgiveness Lampiran 3 : Hasil Validitas Lampiran 4 : Skor Total Lampiran 5 : Tipe Forgiveness Individual Lampiran 6 : Tabulasi Silang Faktor-faktor yang Memengaruhi tipe Forgiveness Lampiran 7 : Biodata Peneliti
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