Abstrak
Secara akal sehat ketika seorang wanita disakiti dan disiksa oleh suaminya, akan sangat sulit bahkan tidak mungkin untuk memaafkan. Salah satu faktor yang dapat memperkuat resiliency adalah forgiveness (Worthingthon, 2015). Penelitian ini menggunakan Teori forgiveness (Worthingthon 2006) dan Teori Resiliency (Wagnild & Young, 2010). Tujuan dilakukannya penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui kontribusi forgiveness terhdap resilienscy. Metode yang digunakan dalam penelitian ini adalah kontribusi dengan menggunakan purposive sampling dan diperoleh dari 40 wanita korban kekerasan dalam rumah tangga. Alat ukur yang digunakan adalah kuesioner Decisional Forgiveness Scale (DFS), Emotional Forgiveness Scale (EFS) yang disusun oleh Worthingthon, dan Resilience Scale- 25 (RS-25) yang disusun oleh Wagnild & Young. Uji validitas menggunakan Pearson Correlation dan reliabilitas menggunakan Alpha Cronbach dengan SPSS 16. Validitas kuesioner DFS berkisar 0,621- 0794 dengan reliabilitas 0,85 Validitas kuesioner EFS berkisar 0,664-0,825 dengan reliabilitas 0,909. Validitas RS-25 berkisar 0,578-0,843 dengan reliabilitas 0,967. Berdasarkan Uji Regresi ganda, forgiveness memiliki kontribusi yang signifikan terhadap resiliency wanita korban kekerasan. (r = 0,67). Hasil penelitian mengatakan bahwa secara umum terdapat kontribusi yang signifikan antara forgiveness dan resiliency, secara khusus, terdapat kontibusi yang signifikan antara emotional forgiveness dan resiliency, namun tidak terdapat kontribusi yang signifikan antara decisional forgiveness dan resiliency. Adapun faktor- faktor yang berkaitan antara forgiveness terhadap resiliency adalah kepribadian individu, karakteristik peristiwa, waktu sejak peristiwa terjadi, dan empati. Dari keempat faktor tersebut ditemukan bahwa terdapat korelasi antara masing –masing faktor dan forgiveness.
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Abstract
In Common sense when a woman is abused and tortured by her husband, would be very difficult even impossible to forgive. One factor that can strengthen the resiliency is forgiveness (Worthingthon, 2015). This study uses the theory of forgiveness (Worthingthon 2006) and Resiliency Theory (Wagnild & Young, 2010).The purpose of this studyto see contribution between forgivebess and resiliency. The method used in this study is a contribution by using purposive sampling and obtained 40 women victims of domestic violence. Measuring instrument used was a questionnaire decisional Forgiveness Scale (DFS), Emotional Forgiveness Scale (EFS) compiled by Worthinthon, and Resilience Scale- 25 (RS-25) compiled by Wagnild & Young. Test the validity of using Pearson Correlation and reliability using Cronbach Alpha with SPSS 16. The validity of the questionnaire DFS ranged 0,621- 0794 with reliability 0,85. The validity of the questionnaire EFS ranged 0,664-0,825 with reliability 0,909. The validity of the RS-25 ranged 0,578-0 with reliability 0,967. Based on multiple regression test, forgiveness has contributed significantly to the resiliency of women victims of violence. (R = 0,67). Research suggests that in general there is a significant contribution between forgiveness and resiliency, in particular, there is a significant contribution between emotional forgiveness and resiliency, but there is no significant contribution between decisional forgiveness and resiliency. The factors that associated with forgiveness is an individual personality, characteristics of the event, the time since the incident, and empathy. Of these four factors is found that there is a correlation between each factor and forgiveness.
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DAFTAR ISI
HALAMAN JUDUL LEMBAR PENGESAHAN...................................................................................
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LEMBAR PERNYATAAN ORISINALITAS SKRIPSI ....................................
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LEMBAR PERNYATAAN PUBLIKASI LAPORAN PENELITIAN ..............
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ABSTRAK ..........................................................................................................
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ABSTRACT ........................................................................................................
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KATA PENGANTAR .........................................................................................
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DAFTAR ISI........................................................................................................
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DAFTAR TABEL ...............................................................................................
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DAFTAR GAMBAR ..........................................................................................
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DAFTAR LAMPIRAN .......................................................................................
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BAB I PENDAHULUAN 1.1.
Latar Belakang Masalah ...........................................................................
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1.2.
Identifikasi Masalah .................................................................................
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1.3.
Maksud dan Tujuan Penelitian.................................................................
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1.3.1. Maksud Penelitian ..........................................................................
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1.3.2. Tujuan Penelitian ...........................................................................
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Kegunaan Penelitian ................................................................................
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1.4.1. Kegunaan Teoretis .........................................................................
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1.4.2. Kegunaan Praktis ...........................................................................
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Kerangka Pikir .........................................................................................
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1.5.
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1.6.
Asumsi Penelitian ....................................................................................
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1.7.
Hipotesis Penelitian .................................................................................
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BAB II TINJAUAN PUSTAKA 2.1.
Forgiveness ..............................................................................................
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2.1.1. Definisi Forgiveness dan Unforgiveness .......................................
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2.1.2. Dinamika Forgiveness dan Unforgiveness ....................................
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2.1.3. Tipe Forgiveness ...........................................................................
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2.1.4. Dinamika Emotional dan Decisional Forgiveness .......................
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2.1.5. Faktor yang mempengaruhi Forgiveness ......................................
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Resiliency ................................................................................................
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2.2.1. Definisi Resiliency .........................................................................
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2.2.2. Komponen Resiliency ....................................................................
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Dinamika Forgiveness dan Resiliency .....................................................
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2.4.
Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga ...........................................................
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2.4.1. Definisi Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga....................................
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2.4.2. Bentuk-bentuk Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga ........................
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Alasan Istri Tidak Mau Meninggalkan Rumah Tangganya .....................
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2.2.
2.5.
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BAB III METODOLOGI PENELITIAN 3.1.
Rancangan dan Prosedur Penelitian .........................................................
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3.2.
Bagan Prosedur Penelitian .......................................................................
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3.3.
Variabel Penelitian dan Definisi Operasional ..........................................
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3.3.1. Variabel Penelitian .........................................................................
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3.3.2. Definisi Operasional ......................................................................
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3.3.2.1. Dukungan Sosial Suami ....................................................
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3.3.2.2. Subjective Well-Being .......................................................
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Alat Ukur ..................................................................................................
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3.4.1. Alat ukur Forgiveness .....................................................................
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3.4.1.1. Penentuan skor Alat Ukur Forgiveness .............................
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3.4.2. Alat ukur Resiliency ........................................................................
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3.4.2.1. Penentuan skor Alat Ukur Resiliency ................................
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3.4.3. Data Pribadi dan Data Penunjang ..............................................................
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3.4.4. Validitas dan Reliabilitas Alat Ukur ..........................................................
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3.4.4.1. Validitas Alat Ukur .......................................................................
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3.4.4.2. Reliabilitas Alat Ukur ...................................................................
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3.5. Populasi dan Teknik Penarikan Sampel ......................................................
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3.5.1. Populasi Sasaran ...............................................................................
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3.5.2. Karakteristik Populasi .......................................................................
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3.5.3. Teknik Penarikan Sampel .................................................................
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3.6. Teknik Analisis Data...................................................................................
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3.7. Hipotesis Statistik .......................................................................................
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3.4.
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BAB IV HASIL DAN PEMBAHASAN 4.1. Gambaran Responden Penelitian .................................................................
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4.2. Hasil Penelitian ............................................................................................
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4.2.1 Hasil Uji Hipotesis Penelitian ...........................................................
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4.2.2. Hasil Regresi Ganda .........................................................................
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4.2.3. Kontribusi Forgiveness terhadap Resiliency .....................................
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4.3 Pembahasan..................................................................................................
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4.4 Diskusi .........................................................................................................
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BAB V SIMPULAN DAN SARAN 5.1. Simpulan ......................................................................................................
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5.2. Saran ............................................................................................................
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5.2.1 Saran Teoretis ....................................................................................
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5.2.2. Saran Praktis ......................................................................................
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DAFTAR PUSTAKA .....................................................................................................
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DAFTAR RUJUKAN .....................................................................................................
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LAMPIRAN
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DAFTAR TABEL
Tabel 3.1. Kisi-kisi Alat Ukur Forgiveness....................................................................
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Tabel 3.2. Kisi-kisi Alat Ukur Resiliency .......................................................................
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Tabel 3.3. Hasil Uji Reliabilitas Kuesioner RS-25.........................................................
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Tabel 3.4. Hasil Uji Reliabilitas Kuesioner DFS ...........................................................
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Tabel 3.5 Hasil Uji Reliabilitas Kuesioner EFS .............................................................
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Tabel 4.1. Gambaran Umum Responden .......................................................................
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Tabel 4.2. Hasil Regresi Ganda Forgiveness terhadap Resiliency .................................
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Tabel 4.3. Hasil Perhitungan Besarnya Kontribusi Forgiveness terhadap Resiliency ...
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Tabel 4.4. Kontribusi Masing-masing Tipe Forgiveness terhadap Resiliency .............
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Tabel 4.5. Hubungan Forgiveness dan Faktor- faktor yang Mempengaruhinya ...........
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DAFTAR GAMBAR
Bagan 1.1. Kerangka Pemikiran ..........................................................................
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Bagan 3.1. Prosedur Penelitian ............................................................................
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DAFTAR LAMPIRAN
Lampiran 1: : Kisi-kisi Alat Ukur .....................................................................
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Lampiran 2: Lembar Kuesioner .......................................................................
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Lampiran 3: Hasil Validitas dan Reliabilitas ..................................................
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Lampiran 4: Hasil Uji Asumsi Klasik .............................................................
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Lampiran 5: Hasil korelasi forgiveness dan faktor-faktornya ..........................
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Lampiran 6: Hasil Regresi Ganda Forgiveness terhadap Resiliency ...............
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Lampiran 7: Data Mentah Kuesioner Forgiveness dan Resiliency ..................
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Lampiran 8: Profil Singkat UPT P2TP2A Kota Bandung ...............................
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Lampiran 9: Hasil Korespondensi Personal dengan Worthingthon ..................
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